Friday, June 19, 2015

For Love of my Neighbor

(Message preached 2/17/2002 at Forest Glen Community Church, Chicago, IL) Listen Here: https://youtu.be/VLw59gWqF6c


This morning I’m going to be speaking on a subject that we all heard a lot about last week, Love. One of the dear ladies of the Church came to me after I taught and she was so moved that it really impressed me to speak on the same subject again, to essentially teach my lesson again, but preach it. And I thought about it and I decided that that might be something to do. Don’t think that I was lazy though, I did do some further study in and worked a little harder on it.[1]

Just a minute after I get in the door that I click the lock and I hear frequently, “Daddy!” and all the kids come running. But it just takes a minute later for my daughter. I just give her my first command you know do this you shouldn’t have done that and I get this, “I don’t love you anymore.” She likes to use that phrase as a weapon when she doesn’t get her way. At first my son Benjamin tried this tactic and it kind of shocked me because I didn’t expect that coming from my own child. But I didn’t really change my battle plan with him and nor do I with Christy. So I expect it will soon become a thing of the past. At least I hope so.

Some people really never get past that juvenile use of words. Even taking actions that children might never dream of to back it up. Their love never matures to the point where such a statement might be considered wrong or even out of place, in an adult society. They might not couch it in the same words, but all the same the meaning hasn’t changed. As Christians we need to show them a mature use of our language and our love to the watching world. How do we do that? What might we show to the world to show them we truly love them and love one another?

Theme:        How do we show love to our neighbors (and continue to do so), which requires trust, in the day & age (post 9/11) which we live?
How do we show love to our neighbors and continue to do so in this post 9-11 environment of fear and concern and federal warnings that things are dangerous? Maybe we shouldn’t go to work today? Maybe we shouldn’t do anything! Some people can be really frightened. But we need to show mature love and that’s what we’re here to talk about today. God provides us many examples of mature love and His Word, both in the old and new Testament. I’m gonna read from Ruth right now:
13 So Boaz took Ruth, and she became his wife, and he went in to her. And the Lord enabled her to conceive, and she gave birth to a son. 14 Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed is the Lord who has not left you without a redeemer today, and may his name become famous in Israel. 15 May he also be to you a restorer of life and a sustainer of your old age; for your daughter-in-law, who loves you and is better to you than seven sons, has given birth to him.” 16 Then Naomi took the child and laid him in her lap, and became his nurse. 17 The neighbor women gave him a name, saying, “A son has been born to Naomi!” So they named him Obed. He is the father of Jesse, the father of David (Ruth 4:13-22).[2]

What you don’t know or some of you don’t know is that Naomi and Ruth were not Israelites. They kind of were grafted in so to speak, to the family of Israel because of their faithfulness to the Lord. The Lord showed them love and honor. Such that now Ruth, who is not an Israelite, is a part of the line of Jesus Christ. This came about because of a rule that God established in the Old Testament. In Leviticus we read now:
22 ’When you reap the harvest of your land, moreover, you shall not reap to the very corners of your field nor gather the gleaning of your harvest; you are to leave them for the needy and the alien. I am the Lord your God.’ ”(Lev. 23:22)[3]

We’re not really an agrarian society here in Chicago or in the United States. But for those who wouldn’t understand, gleaning would just be leaving the leaving a few stalks of grain behind, a couple of years of corn. So that somebody who comes through, who needs something to eat would have that.

I looked up the word of the word stranger, it says ‘you shall leave them for the needy and for the stranger’, I looked at that word up it comes up with a definition of a sojourner, “A temporary inhabitant, a newcomer lacking inherited rights; or foreigners in Israel, though with conceded rights.”[4] So these people were just this this was set up to provide for people who had no means and this was set up by God in his law and that’s how Ruth became part of the line of David and the Lord Jesus. Contrary to the popular belief of some people, the god of the Old Testament is not a God of anger while the God of the New Testament is a God of love. The Scriptures say plainly of the Lord Jesus who is God in the flesh, that “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday today and forever” (Heb. 13:8). So I would take issue with anybody that says anything of God being different in the Old Testament or having a different nature. God doesn’t change, and when we think of the Lord Jesus and we think of his love and that he died on the cross we have to remember that same love applies to God the Father before Jesus was known. We have to look at our old testament in that view so we see this this passage in Leviticus can help flesh that out. He was providing for people. 

Let’s look at our Lord Jesus his own directive. This is the Good Samaritan story that many of us know:
25 And a lawyer stood up and put Him to the test, saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” 26 And He said to him, “What is written in the Law? How does it read to you?” 27 And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” 28 And He said to him, “You have answered correctly; do this and you will live.” 29 But wishing to justify himself, he said to Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?30 Jesus replied and said, “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among robbers, and they stripped him and beat him, and went away leaving him half dead. 31 And by chance a priest was going down on that road, and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. 32 Likewise a Levite also, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. (Luke 10:25-32)[5]
I’m going to pause in the story to make a comment. The laws of the Old Testament were there for the benefit of people because of God’s love. Once again we remember that. What did the leadership of the Jews, the Levites and the priests, do but they changed those laws into a rigid unloving system A.T. Robertson calls this “A vivid and powerful picture of the vice of Jewish ceremonial cleanliness at the cost of moral principle and duty.”[6] Going on in the story:
But a Samaritan, who was on a journey, came upon him; and when he saw him, he felt compassion, 34 and came to him and bandaged up his wounds, pouring oil and wine on them; and he put him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 On the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper and said, ‘Take care of him; and whatever more you spend, when I return I will repay you.’ 36 Which of these three do you think proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell into the robbers’ hands?37 And he said, “The one who showed mercy toward him.” Then Jesus said to him, “Go and do the same.” (Luke 10:33-37)[7]

Did you ever stop and think about why the Samaritan might not have stopped. I can think of two reasons
He was not a Jew. How did the Jews feel about the Samaritans I don’t think they were very close. Let me read some Scriptures to you that that give you a little history of the Samaritans and the and the animosity that the Samaritans and the Jews had towards each other. In Ezra 4,
But Zerubbabel and Jeshua and the rest of the heads of fathers’ households of Israel said to them, “You have nothing in common with us in building a house to our God; but we ourselves will together build to the Lord God of Israel, as King Cyrus, the king of Persia has commanded us.” Then the people of the land discouraged the people of Judah, and frightened them from building, and hired counselors against them to frustrate their counsel all the days of Cyrus king of Persia, even until the reign of Darius king of Persia. (Ezra 4:3-5)[8]
This this occurred right after the 70 years of captivity. There were groups of people who would be been begun returning to the land of Israel. Some had begun building their own homes but Ezra the scribe desired to build the house of God once again which had been destroyed. When he did so, some of the Jews who had remained in the land for the 70 years didn’t like it. These were Jews who had decided to give up their Jewishness in a sense by marrying with some of the other peoples in the area. These are the people who came against Ezra and this is where the beginning of the clashes start. This was several hundred years before the Lord Jesus comes on the scene. Look in John. We have the Jews accusing Jesus here, in the book of John:
48 The Jews answered and said to Him, “Do we not say rightly that You are a Samaritan and have a demon?” (John 8:48)[9]

See, they felt that it was such an insult to call a person a Samaritan. It would be equal to calling him, you know, being filled with a demon. It was it was the same nature. That’s how strong the hatred was. There’s one more passage I want to read in the book of Acts which kind of wraps things up a little for us. Peter has been summoned to speak to Cornelius:
28 And he said to them, “You yourselves know how unlawful it is for a man who is a Jew to associate with a foreigner or to visit him; and yet God has shown me that I should not call any man unholy or unclean. (Acts 10:28)[10]

Peter is speaking to Cornelius and if I recall Cornelius was a man who like a taxidermist in a sense. He was definitely a man who would be considered unclean according to the Jewish laws, besides being a foreigner. You see Peter refers to the laws of you shouldn’t be coming into a foreigner’s house because of uncleanness again. Fortunately, Peter says that God has shown me that I should not call any man unholy and unclean. That’s our example today. See he’s going back to what really should have been the way things were. So, the man was it was a Jew and the Samaritan had every right in the world in some in some twisted way, of saying. ‘I shouldn’t stop’ but he stops.

Another reason he might not have stopped was he was traveling. Have you ever been on a road trip for business or pleasure maybe you were traveling to Milwaukee Rockford on business or maybe you were on a family vacation you’re just humming along down the road listening to some music on the CD or the tape. Wait a minute, what set up the road? Oh no! There’s a car with a hood up. gosh I ever just drive on by him? just leave him there on the side of the road? Now you think, “I’m sure he’s got Triple A. Yeah, maybe there’s nobody in the car… oh, shoot. Someone was in there. Now there’s really a moral dilemma. Well if I stop, I’ll be a good Samaritan but I’ll be late for my meeting or whatever else I was planning for…” You might rationalize it away, “Maybe this guy is got some scheme – you know, he wants you to stop and he’s gonna pull a gun on you and rob you…” We worry about things like that sometimes. You know, irrational fears maybe they’re not so irrational after 9/11?  We see some crazy things, we never would have thought could have been an attempted… Meanwhile we’re thinking about this and the guy is turned into a speck in the rearview mirror. Glad that’s over, back to my music.

You know, time and money folks. That’s what it takes to stop. This man took his time and his money to help a fellow in distress. He showed him mature love. Paul shows us numerous times what it takes in the book of Acts. He was in a city called Lystra when he heals a man:
This man was listening to Paul as he spoke, who, when he had fixed his gaze on him and had seen that he had faith to be made well, 10 said with a loud voice, “Stand upright on your feet.” And he leaped up and began to walk. 11 When the crowds saw what Paul had done, they raised their voice, saying in the Lycaonian language, “The gods have become like men and have come down to us.” 12 And they began calling Barnabas, Zeus, and Paul, Hermes, because he was the chief speaker. 13 The priest of Zeus, whose temple was just outside the city, brought oxen and garlands to the gates, and wanted to offer sacrifice with the crowds. (Acts 14:9-13)[11]
Jumping ahead now, Paul and Barnabas try to convince them not to sacrifice.

Even saying these things, with difficulty they restrained the crowds from offering sacrifice to them. 19 But Jews came from Antioch and Iconium, and having won over the crowds, they stoned Paul and dragged him out of the city, supposing him to be dead. 20 But while the disciples stood around him, he got up and entered the city. The next day he went away with Barnabas to Derbe. 21 After they had preached the gospel to that city and had made many disciples, they returned to Lystra and to Iconium and to Antioch, 22 strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying, “Through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God.” 23 When they had appointed elders for them in every church, having prayed with fasting, they commended them to the Lord in whom they had believed. (Acts 14:18-23)[12]

How could people who were going to sacrifice to Paul and Barnabas, turn so quickly into stoning them? It’s a conundrum in our mind when we first think about it. But we’ve all seen various riots where you’ve got a group of people who really don’t have any direction. They’re just kind of wild, revelry going on and all of a sudden it takes one person one person to throw some of some rock at a window or to light a fire someplace and everyone starts going wild.
This is something similar. They weren’t really interested in Paul and Barnabas for the miracle that had happened. They were just interested in the excitement. “Wow! someone was healed. This is great! Let’s go crazy.” They were playing follow the leader.

Why did Paul return to Lystra after he was stoned? He got up, went back into the city that same day. Then the next day he left. He preached in Derbe, saw many people come to know the Lord, and then he continues his circuit coming back to Lystra and to Iconium and Antioch! Encouraging the Brethren there, that’s why. Encouraging the Brethren. He thought more of the people of God, than he did of his own life. Iconium and Antioch were where the Jews who were the rabble rousers who came in to upset the crowd – that’s where they were from. And he went there too. There were disciples in them towns. People that needed to be encouraged, people that needed leadership.
Sometimes we think to ourselves, Why should something like this had happened? You know he was stoned, he could have died. Well God didn’t allow that, but God did allow the stoning and I think for a very good purpose. Because immediately after that happened, he appointed elders for them in every Church. For the first time in church history, this is when that occurred. There was actual leadership outside of the disciples in the individual churches. Because Paul realized he’s a mortal, and he wouldn’t be there forever. Paul gives his own testimony on that same activity in 2 Corinthians and he’s speaking out here, he says,
23 Are they servants of Christ?—I speak as if insane—I more so; in far more labors, in far more imprisonments, beaten times without number, often in danger of death. 24 Five times I received from the Jews thirty-nine lashes. 25 Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked, a night and a day I have spent in the deep. 26 I have been on frequent journeys, in dangers from rivers, dangers from robbers, dangers from my countrymen, dangers from the Gentiles, dangers in the city, dangers in the wilderness, dangers on the sea, dangers among false brethren; 27 I have been in labor and hardship, through many sleepless nights, in hunger and thirst, often without food, in cold and exposure. 28 Apart from such external things, there is the daily pressure on me of concern for all the churches. 29 Who is weak without my being weak? Who is led into sin without my intense concern? (2 Cor. 11:23-29)[13]

This is Paul. His heart was a heart of love for these people. For not just the people of God, but for all people. Because he was out there preaching to bring people to know the Lord Jesus, to know the Messiah had come. You can be free from the burdens that you carry. Paul also says in Galatians, “For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” (Gal. 5:14)[14]

Do you know there are 613 individual laws in the Old Testament Pentateuch? And it all hangs on this – Love your neighbor as yourself. You know, we think of eye for an eye and tooth for tooth and some of the very monotonous legalese that we read when we poke around in Leviticus and Exodus and Deuteronomy and what not. But what it all boils down to is God is trying to communicate to us, love. Love from himself and love for one another. He’s taking this group of Israelites, this 2.7 million people who came across the Red Sea and he’s saying, ‘This is what you must do to show love for one another, honor for one another’. But it all boils down to one thing – love your neighbor as yourself.

Some of us have heard about the stories of Paul and Shelley. How they were in Pakistan right during the beginning of the war against Afghanistan and how they had such a trouble to come home. It took them several weeks longer than should have. And I know in my own heart I was aching for them, worried that they would not be able to come home with their child, or wouldn’t be able to come home at all; would choose to stay there rather than abandon their son. And then we all prayed for them and they finally got home. I was sharing this information on a regular basis with various people I work with. Many were non-Christians, I was sharing it because they knew Paul, from days of long ago when Paul used to work there, and my boss was one of them. And when he heard that Paul was back he was very glad. He had a big smile I said well that’s good, and I am glad that worked out.

So later I bumped into Paul and I had my opinion of what his answer is we going to be. I had a question for him. my student said Paul “So what are you going to do now?” My thought was he was going to minister somewhere in one of the bigger cities maybe Detroit or Chicago, with any hope, and that we would see him more regularly. Because he would be able to minister to the Pakistani Muslims here with a with a huge advantage over many other people who might do so, since he had lived there for several years. I figured for sure that would be the answer. He said, “Well we’re going back in September, Dave.”

My jaw just about dropped. Then I thought, ‘You know what, that’s right.’ That’s right, we can’t abandon these people just because of fear. Maybe that’s not for every one of us, but someone has to be out there. This weekend actually, I believe two days ago, Paul and possibly Shelly and the baby went to Seattle, and they’re visiting Gary and Joan. Gary and Joan were in Pakistan with Paul and Shelley in the past. They’re returning this coming week to Pakistan. They’re the first missionaries to return from the mission group that Paul is a part of, and Paul and Shelley wanted to go out there to wish them well. And to say, “We’ll see you in September.” They also bumped into a few other people while they’re in Seattle they planning to visit. Think of this, Paul and Shelley are planning to return; Gary and Joan are planning to return, are returning. That shows mature love, that says, ‘You know what, my life is not my own. My life was given to me by God and could be taken away at any time and I shouldn’t be concerned about that.’

What is the motivating factor behind these two couples? I didn’t even mention my other friends the Garcia’s. They’re in México and they’ve been battling an issue with skin cancer and one might think that they should come home with a better medical help. But they aren’t coming home until it’s time. For the same reason: For love of God and love of neighbor. Let me read something from Matthew, it pertains to the end times but it may pertain to today. I’m not saying that the end times are upon us though:
Then they will deliver you to tribulation, and will kill you, and you will be hated by all nations because of My name. 10 At that time many will fall away and will betray one another and hate one another. 11 Many false prophets will arise and will mislead many. 12 Because lawlessness is increased, most people’s love will grow cold.(Matt. 24:9-12)[15]

Most people’s love will grow cold, because lawlessness is increased. 9/11 changed the world. We saw people do things that shocked us and changed us. But don’t let that give you a cold heart. Don’t let your love grow cold over that. Christ’s words are a call to moral vigilance. We need to have warm hearts, we need to go back to Pakistan. We need to reach out to our neighbors.

Let’s close in a word of prayer: Father every one of us is wrestling with things right now in our hearts. Some of us are saying, ‘But we shouldn’t just put our neck out there on the line all the time. We shouldn’t challenge God.’ Lord, we know that’s not what you’re saying, and yet sometimes our hearts would like to just scramble our thoughts. Help us Lord, to be prepared to hear whatever You have for us; that we would quickly do what you ask without question. Help us to have an open and willing heart to help someone, even if it takes a little time or a little money. Help us to show you honor, by loving one another. I pray these things in Jesus name, amen.



[1] Preached at Forest Glen Community Church, Sunday Feb. 17, 2002
[2] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Ru 4:13–22.
[3] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Le 23:22.
[4] Strong, J. (1996). Enhanced Strong's Lexicon (H1616). Ontario: Woodside Bible Fellowship. 
[5] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Lk 10:25–32.
[6] Robertson’s Word Pictures in the New Testament, Emphasis added.                
[7] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Lk 10:33–37.
[8] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Ezr 4:3–5.
[9] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Jn 8:48.
[10] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Ac 10:28.
[11] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Ac 14:9–13.
[12] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Ac 14:18–23.
[13] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), 2 Co 11:23–29.
[14] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Ga 5:14.
[15] New American Standard Bible, 1995 Edition: Paragraph Version (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Mt 24:9–12.

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